Life coaching 1-on-1

We all go through highs and lows. And sometimes you can use some support.

Do you want to develop personally and get the most out of your life?

Do you want to rediscover passion and lust for life?

Are you going through a hectic time and can’t see the wood for the trees?

Would you like more practical spirituality in your life?

Or has your relationship become a well-oiled PLC that lacks heart?

Or is your relationship over, or did you lose a precious friend or job and can’t figure out how to go on?

Then Life-coaching may be what you need now. My experience as a LifeCoach who has coached hundreds of people when making their life choices could also be of service to you. You make visibly and tangibly better steps that lighten your life in a number of one-on-one coaching sessions. LifeCoaching addresses mainly private-oriented questions you may have and is paid by one own private self.

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Individual Coachings

There are no costs associated with an initial online discovery call, regardless of whether it leads to a coaching program. The average number of sessions is 4 to 8, each lasting 1.5 hours. The number of sessions depends on the number of questions and the level of development achieved during the coaching program. It is also possible to schedule a single coaching session at a time.

The first three coaching sessions follow each other in rapid succession (every week or two weeks), so that you really make progress with what you have been given. After a verbal interim evaluation, we examine whether the desired development has come about. If we continue the process you will act increasingly on the basis of your own strength. The remaining sessions will be every 2, 3 or 4 weeks. Then you always have a back-up to look forward to.

Free Online Discovery Call

To determine, without obligation, whether I can truly help you, you can request a free online discovery call. We'll get to know each other and see if we connect. There's ample opportunity for you to share your story and explain the reason for your coaching. I'll help you agree on concrete goals that we can use to monitor your development.

I also explain specifically how I can help you progress using insights, exercises and assignments. This outlines what you can expect from my coaching process.

If both parties feel comfortable working together, we'll discuss a suitable proposal for the number of coaching sessions and the associated current costs. If desired, I'll prepare a quote outlining your objectives, terms, and costs. 

How do I work as a coach?

During the process we work at 3 levels, namely: 1) behaviour and skills, 2) personality/ego and 3) soul/spiritual experiences. Why? Because only working on behaviour and skills will not enable you to deal with your own foundation, which means that old (work) behaviour can reoccur easily.

1. Behaviour & skills

We map out your behaviour and choices using your practical situations and feedback from me, in my capacity as coach, and others. And the effect they have on you and your surroundings. Theoretical models and accompanying hand-outs give you more insight into your behaviour and the alternatives that are much more productive. I can also coach you in communication or management skills that support your learning goals. My extensive experience enables me to help you with practical perspectives and exercises in the fields of coaching, conflict management, negotiations and enhancing your personal profile.

2. Personality/ego

You can mow the grass (‘behaviour’), but if you don’t deal with the roots it will just come back. This is why my coaching increases your awareness of the origin and effect of your personality on your learning goals. I use the Psychology of Selves and Voice Dialogue, a method I was trained in by the founders Hal & Sidra Stone. This leads you to new self-generated choices that fundamentally stimulate and support your development. You are occasionally asked to write a short autobiography to gain even clearer insight into your ego patterns. This then enables you to make new choices in line with who you are. Hal & Sidra Stone am trained. This allows you to make new choices from within that further fundamentally stimulate and support your development.
Sometimes you are asked to write a short and focused autobiography to better map your ego patterns.

3. Soul experiences

Some experiences can touch your soul deeply. For example, the loss of your partner or other loved ones or other experiences that determine your current mood and attitude. Then it is essential to look carefully to see how you can handle things differently. I have many years’ experience in bereavement counselling and have trained several coaches in this field.

Sometimes you want more tranquillity in your soul, and I can support you in this with exercises, including visualisation and mindfulness je ondersteunen.

Moreover, you can rediscover your passion and the meaning of what inspires you. A sequence of insights and exercises enables you to build a personal vision for yourself. This gives you a compass to redirect your life.

Location Lifecoaching

I use three methods of arranging the intake and coaching sessions:

Coachhouse

In the Coachhuis near CS Station in The Hague, Alphen aan den Rijn, Alkmaar and in Amsterdam (near the Olympic Stadium) and Utrecht (depending on what is available). You will of course be informed in advance where that is.

On site

In The Hague, Amsterdam, Haarlem, Alkmaar or Utrecht I come to your room if you can reserve a suitable coaching room there.

Online

You can also participate in online coaching sessions if you are too busy or I am overseas. For example, via Skype, facetime or whatsapp.

Questions about LifeCoaching?

Je kunt me altijd bellen, mailen of appen met vragen naar:
[email protected].
06-15620111
I will reply as quickly as possible.

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